{"id":251,"date":"2016-01-06T15:37:00","date_gmt":"2016-01-06T15:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/?post_type=our-story&#038;p=251"},"modified":"2023-06-12T01:52:20","modified_gmt":"2023-06-12T01:52:20","slug":"were-just-friends","status":"publish","type":"our-story","link":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/fr\/our-story\/were-just-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Nous sommes juste des amis"},"content":{"rendered":"<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-251\" data-postid=\"251\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-251 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    \t\t\t<!-- module_row -->\n\t<div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_row themify_builder_row tb_3y9e394 tb_first tf_w tf_clearfix\">\n\t    \t\t\t<div class=\"row_inner col_align_top tb_col_count_1 tf_box tf_rel\">\n\t\t            <div  data-lazy=\"1\" class=\"module_column tb-column col-full tb_yn33395 first\">\n                                                        <div class=\"tb-column-inner tf_box tf_w\">\n                        <!-- module text -->\n<div  class=\"module module-text tb_3u25764\" data-lazy=\"1\">\n        <div  class=\"tb_text_wrap\">\n    <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Notre premi\u00e8re sortie ensemble m\u2019avait laiss\u00e9 perplexe. Mais une chose \u00e9tait certaine, j\u2019aimais beaucoup \u00eatre avec Ian. Je savais que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas pr\u00eat pour une relation \u00e0 long terme ou pour sortir avec quelqu\u2019un, mais Ian \u00e9tait rapidement devenu un ami tr\u00e8s proche. Je minimisais notre amiti\u00e9 aupr\u00e8s de mes amis proches parce que je ne voulais pas qu\u2019ils me poussent \u00e0 aller trop vite avec lui. J\u2019avais besoin de comprendre ce qui m\u2019arrivait.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nous avons commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 nous entraider \u00e0 de nombreuses occasions. Entre faire l\u2019\u00e9picerie au Loblaws du Maple Leaf Gardens, regarder des \u00e9missions de r\u00e9novation sur HGTV dans son condo et sortir manger quelque chose en fin de soir\u00e9e au restaurant Fran\u2019s sur Victoria Street, je trouvais \u00e7a bien de tra\u00eener avec lui.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est rest\u00e9 comme \u00e7a pendant assez longtemps, au point o\u00f9 j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 m\u2019inqui\u00e9ter qu\u2019Ian veuille aller plus loin que notre amiti\u00e9.  Je savais qu\u2019il voulait plus que \u00e7a, et \u00e7a me for\u00e7ait \u00e0 me demander si justement \u00e7a pouvait \u00eatre plus.<\/p>    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<!-- \/module text -->                    <\/div>\n                            <\/div>\n            \t    <\/div>\n\t    <!-- \/row_inner -->\n\t<\/div>\n\t<!-- \/module_row -->\n\t<\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was a bit confused as to what our first hangout was, but one thing was for sure, I really enjoyed having Ian around. I knew I wasn\u2019t ready for a relationship or a boyfriend, but Ian became a very close friend very quickly. I played down how quickly we became close to my friends [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"featured_media":466,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"template":"","ptb_metabox":{"ptb_our_story_written_by":"St\u00e9phane","ptb_our_story_cover_image":["465","https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/6_Friends_C.jpg"]},"ptb_taxonomy":[],"ptb_featured_image":{"url":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/6_Friends_BW.jpg","title":"6_Friends_BW","caption":""},"builder_content":"<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was a bit confused as to what our first hangout was, but one thing was for sure, I really enjoyed having Ian around. I knew I wasn\u2019t ready for a relationship or a boyfriend, but Ian became a very close friend very quickly. I played down how quickly we became close to my friends because I didn\u2019t want them to push me into moving things faster with him. I needed time to figure out what this was.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We started being each other\u2019s go-to for so many routine things. From getting groceries at the Loblaws at Maple Leaf Gardens, watching the latest HGTV show in his condo, to grabbing a late-night bite at Fran\u2019s on Victoria Street, hanging out with him felt right.<\/p> <p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This remained the norm for quite some time, to the point where I started getting worried Ian would want to move on from our friendship. I knew he wanted more and this really had me thinking\u2026 could this be more?<\/p>","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/our-story\/251"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/our-story"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/our-story"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/466"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stephaneian.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=251"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}